“We Started Talking Again…”

Ever start talking to your ex and think “hey, maybe we could make amends…. or even try things again”? 

WOAH THERE… HOLD UP!

Why go back to something when it didn’t work once before?

“You Can’t Start The Next Chapter Of Your Life If You Keep Re-Reading The Last One.”

ya dig?

okay, okay! I understand, sometimes second chances DO work… But when should you choose to walk away… or try again?

Walk away if:

1. You’re in high school… you have so much life ahead of you! (“but we are more mature now!”) bullshit. Go experience the world! If he happens to pop up in your future, THEN and ONLY then, try again

2. He/She cheated on you…. they left you once for someone else. When they had you, they consciously chose to betray your trust. You need someone who is there for you, even in his or her times of weakness!

3. You cheated on him/her… if you try to begin again with someone you cheated on, they will forever hold your past against you, you will forever be the one who didn’t love enough. You will spend your whole relationship trying to prove why they should trust you again. And anyways… YOU CHEATED.. clearly you weren’t getting what you needed out of the relationship!

4. In the past relationship, they did things you hated…for example, didn’t workout. If you’re into physical fitness and you were so bothered by their lack of desire to be physically fit, they’re not going to change.. now this is a minor flaw, but there are other things such as smoking, lying, jealousy, lack of ability to be serious, religion, values: these are all things that make them who they are… if you don’t like it… do you really even like them?

“Don’t let loneliness drive you back into the arms of someone you know you don’t belong with.”

shhhh, it’s a shecret